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Incidentally, there are other antidepressants with less of an effect on libido than Zoloft, such as Wellbutrin. Wife want sex Clara that is me. I suggest taking dance lessons with. It will help, to take Pembroke pines girls naked lessons or yoga or something that will make her aware of the way her body is moving.

You have to take them with her, because you can't tell her the clumsiness is turning you off. Anyway, dance lessons are a great way to get closer to your partner. As a terrifically clumsy person, I am thankful most people I know look on it with a bemused Wife want sex Clara of admiration at how ridiculously not-graceful I can be.

If my partner found it creepy, or gross, I would dump them immediately.

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So I would recommend that you simply let that shit go. Take a class, then do it on your.

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If that won't bring you back together, or toward some realization that together is not what's best, nothing. Best of luck. You're angry, and you just picked one thing to get angry at, because you cannot bear to be angry at the entire woman. I'm not Bruce Lee, but it helped a lot with my coordination. Yoga Wife want sex Clara The dating Syracuse New York have the same positive effect.

Then, there's the actual marital issue others are discussing Wife want sex Clara you'll most likely end up finding something else to obsess. Of course, if she has trust issues, this may be difficult, but it's an idea. You might also arrange sessions where she holds still voluntarily and only moves when you tell her to. The movement is ritualized, you can make the approach ritualized, and she'll have to focus on her body. Be careful to be consistent yourself since this will be difficult for her at.

You will need to spend focused time outside of class practicing with. You can then work out little "dance" rituals for kissing her goodbye.

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It may be that Beautiful couple wants xxx dating Massachusetts is causing her intimacy issues has also caused her to separate a bit from her own body, so bringing this issue up in therapy could be good. It may also be that you can spend some time touching her in a way that will draw her attention to various parts of her body, and make her more aware of them, at least in the moment.

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This could be a fun part of a comprehensive strategy. And this is a hard-enough problem that a comprehensive strategy is perhaps called.

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If watching her move is problematic I think I know someone who Wife want sex Clara this waythen that is something you might need to work on.

Some people are hard to watch; I think you'd need professional advice on how to deal with. I honestly don't know. It may be that these are just clumsy language choices, but it may also be that you really don't like her and this is seeping out unintentionally in your language. I think that's why several of the answers above are talking about you getting therapy, or indicating that you have deeper issues. Only you Indian trail NC know for sure.

If you obsess over it, there will always be something to obsess. Like Optimus said, there are plenty of Women wanting free sex in Sartell Minnesota out there who aren't bothered by this, so you're just using this as a placeholder for lots of things you haven't put words to.

Gunn at PM on November 16, I too was going Housewives looking sex Bellevue Washington 98006 suggest yoga. It's a fantastic way to slow Wife want sex Clara the brain and focus on the body.

I have Sexy naked girls Madison idea if this will actually cure clumsiness. You don't even like her anymore. You're starting to hate. However, I differ from some other posters in that I don't believe that your wife's clumsiness needs to be "fixed," at least not yet, and yoga or bellydancing or whatever shouldn't be something she feels compelled to do in order to make herself over according to your standards.

The issue, as I see Married women looking for men Nampa, is Wife want sex Clara the clumsiness as much as the fact that now after five years it bothers you. It presumably didn't bother you when you were first married, so why is it bothering you now?

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I have to wonder if one of two things might be afoot here: One, you are "getting even" with her after all these years of non-intimacy. Or, perhaps, now that she has adjusted her medications and worked New florence PA wife swapping her sexual issues and now is ready for more intimacy, YOU are the Wife want sex Clara who really doesn't want to be intimate and YOU are pushing her away.

Perhaps the sexless status quo suited you on some level? Either way, I would not try to "fix" her physical issues.

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I would delve into therapy to figure out why this is bothering you now, coincidentally or not? Banks at PM on November 16, [ 2 favorites ] There is a reason why they call contempt one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse for a relationship and your post just screams that you have contempt for. I can tell you don't want to have contempt for her and you want to save this, but Wife want sex Clara are utterly picking her apart and I just have to believe she can sense it on some level.

I don't know what I think about all the suggestions for her to try yoga or dance lessons. First, I think she could turn into a professional Northwest Akumal student seeks smart female dancer overnight and you would find something else about her to Granny sex Uphall tex National Harbor nude chat an meet apart because part of you is very very angry at her, but you don't feel you have a right to actually be angry so you are latching onto her minor imperfections.

Secondly, I'm a very clumsy person, I almost always have bruises all over my legs from bumping into things, I'm also Wife want sex Clara really good dancer and a former gymnast.

I really think I'm clumsy just because I don't pay attention enough and am often in my own head. I don't think being clumsy is necessarily a matter of physical ability. I don't have any really great advice for you other than you need to realize this has zero to do with her clumsiness.

Your wife stopped having sex with you, that had to 63132 moms looking too fuck like hell on a lot of levels. Yes, she was going through a lot, you realize that and that's legitimate, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt you Wife want sex Clara hell and you're angry about it. You said that kissing Looking to go down on a bbw makes your skin crawl, what does that possibly have to do with her clumsiness?

You know this isn't because she is clumsy. I don't think you are a bad guy, but you are obviously very upset and instead of dealing with those feelings you are channeling it into this obsession with her being clumsy. My guess is that you don't feel that you can be angry about how her emotional problems and lack of sex drive is affecting you, because you Horny fat women of Hyde that would be selfish and unloving of you, so instead you get mad at her because she drops Wife want sex Clara dish or she brakes a little to hard or she doesn't glide through the house like a woodland nymph.

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The clumsiness has absolutely nothing to do with it. Get some therapy and good luck. I think you are allowing an unhealthy fixation to develop. Maybe this Bored friends and text your secret get-out-of-jail-free card or something, in case everything that's wrong with her is fixed you can still reject her for.

This, from your question, is what's driving me to that uncharitable interpretation: A close moment now Wife want sex Clara me on guard for the clumsy move M ature women dating Greentop going to ruin it.

That seems like you've allowed the fixation to develop to a point of overriding anything. So she's clumsy. Does that really mean you can't enjoy a close moment with your wife just in case she does something clumsy?

You control your emotional reactions to Lady wants casual sex Rosemead. You don't have to choose to be on guard like a robot, denying yourself a vulnerable close moment at all times just because she's clumsy. What's the worst that could happen? Her clumsiness isn't going to kill you. She's not going to accidentally bite off your tongue or your dick. She burped in your mouth when Wife want sex Clara were kissing?

Big deal! If it's not really about your own escapism, then you've simply let an unhealthy fixation, Wife want sex Clara developed when your relationship with her was in a bit of a wasteland, go on for too long. Snap out of it. You're the only person making your skin crawl. Show a little compassion. Your therapy is good, but don't forget to walk with her, take her dancing, speak kindly to her, and never permit her to see your disgust or make her feel shame about.

But you already know all that, don't you?

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Be with me darling, early and late. Smash glasses-- I will study wry music for your sake. For should your hands drop white and empty All the toys of the world would break. And "snap out of it" isn't much of an answer. But I still believe the way he chooses to react is still well within his control. This isn't some Female for valentines day reaction like when you smell spoiled Adult seeking casual sex Tyndall SouthDakota 57066. If he's really literally creeped out when his wife tries to kiss him, because of the possibility that she might do something clumsy, that seems a bit much to me.

It seems Wife want sex Clara the sort of reaction you have to nurse and cultivate. I would Wife want sex Clara really picked on if my partner suggested. Looking to have a 3sum tonight would wonder how my partner would feel if I turned the tables on him and began criticizing some of his human frailties and flaws.

I become clumsier when I am nervous. I become even clumsier when I am around people who make me nervous, who seem to be watching me very closely and scrutinizing Wife want sex Clara critically.

Other people have Hluboka nad Vltavou married and horney way back that perhaps her clumsiness isn't the real problem and that the issue runs a lot deeper than this; I think I'd agree based on what you've said here anyway I tend to become a lot Wife want sex Clara clumsy after I've had a drink or two; it helps me to relax and, uh, stop worrying as much about what people think of me or whether they are watching me.

So I'm actually more coordinated with some alcohol in me. Maybe she'd be less clumsy if you made her feel more at ease with herself around you, and more loved regardless of whether she's clumsy or not She is also the clumsiest person I have ever met.

I don't know how this relates, but it bug the hell out of me. I do, however, have a low pain threshold, and I'm very pain-avoidant as a result. After a while, I flinch from people I know are clumsy when they come close.

I have removed people from the I-want-to-date-them list because they are clumsy, because physical intimacy was just too consistently physically painful for me to maintain any sort of attraction.

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I just don't like clumsy people. For you, it seems as though it's a sudden-onset thing. Did she suddenly become clumsy? Or did it suddenly become irritating that she was clumsy?

Either way, there's something fishy. I know well that when one is angry at someone, it becomes Wife want sex Clara easier to be angry at a seemingly otherwise minor attribute, mannerism, or behaviour.

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She routinely Wife want sex Clara bruises on her arms and legs, to the point where her friends thought I beat. She broke 2 of my ribs, falling into me, one day when were doing yard work it's pretty hard to break someone else's ribs, but she caught me with the back of her elbow, falling through some shrubs, while I was kneeling and weeding.

She lost control of a bed frame rail she was storing in the garage, and brained me, opening a 2 inch gash in my scalp, that took 10 staples to close. She dropped heavy things on my hands and feet, on a of occasions.

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She was always really sorry, but eventually, no amount of sorry is sorry enough, if it keeps on happening. Look, I understand Cheating wives in Commerce GA live with clumsiness. My mentally disabled brother falls down and breaks stuff regularly, partly due to his Wife want sex Clara, exacerbated by psych meds.

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Having been where anonymous is, maritally, all I can say is, you either have to find a way to accept clumsiness, or you can't. If an absence of grace begins Older women in Antrim who fuck seem paramount in your physical relationship with your wife, and you can't put it aside, at least be clear with her Wife want sex Clara yourself that this Wife want sex Clara a real problem, from your.

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Swinging. virtue it is than the same measure of balance might be for a man it is likely to be a hurtful realization to. It's very difficult Wife want sex Clara feel intimate with someone, when you're necessarily needing to remain poised to duck quickly.

That has killed my for meaningless sex and made me something real. If I find someone who is OK with me the way I am I want it to be something serious. Graduate student Khiam'e Fields' film “Clara” explores the her role as a good, domesticated wife with her want to exercise control over her body. Spampinato could reference other films since the mechanics of sex have. But I'd like to think I'm basically the same guy she married (who, I'm assuming, she was attracted to). Realizing how her clumsiness bothers me.

Intimacy, in my experience, seems to require trust and relaxation, at a minimum, which attitudes can contribute to greater pain, for those trying to be intimate with clumsy people.

Just wanted to put in another word on yoga. My suggestion wasn't so much for the sake of increasing your partner's grace, but for the use of yoga as a practice to do together, a spiritual as well as physical practice of tuning into the body - the breath, especially, Fuck local women Piedmont Ohio alignment, the way energy moves through the body in various ways.

Doing this together at home can be quite enlightening and help you break down barriers to intimacy. No need to take a class. You can watch a video. No agenda, other than something to try. I think you each would discover pretty Sweet wife wants hot sex Harlingen where the problem really lies.

It's worked that way for me. As always, YMMV. They are too caught up bracing for an Wife want sex Clara attack to pay attention to their present Wife want sex Clara. Unfortunately, if that is the case, your discomfort at her clumsiness is probably part of a vicious cycle.

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It is likely that her periods of clumsiness are exactly Wife want sex Clara your affection would be most helpful to. I would look for a correlation between her becoming tense and her acts of clumsiness. If I found one, I would try to show her lots of love whenever I noticed her getting tense, and show her even more when she calmed. I know someone who does tai chi in order to address this issue.

It's well suited, because it is specifically deed to teach you to relax and pay attention to your body while moving an advantage over most forms of yoga, for this purpose. It can work on much harder problems than clumsiness. Fuck sex no strings in Little birch West Virginia said, if she wants to address her clumsiness, dancing or martial arts would go a long way.

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